More than anything I'm looking for companionship, A mental connection. An interest connection. That seems like a good place to start.
I'm single, 58, trim athletic build. I think too much. I have a readily available sense of humor and laugh. Terribly independent. I've got a cat. She lets me live with her. (You know how that is?) I have not been to a gay bar in years, and that's been nice. I'm not defined by GBLT, nor interested in being so. I'm an open book. Except sexually. (Grisly chap, huh? Nah. I soften up after a while.)
Ask me about:
yes? no? maybe? what other answer am I leaving out here?
Kinds of guys I'm looking for:
I may be one of the zillions of 50-somethings looking for the elusive "YOUNGER" (Gotta do what you gotta do.) Physically: I know it when I see it. (I will say that the only bodily thing that should 'jiggle' - will hang right or left.) Intellectually: I'll know it when I talk to it. Emotionally: Available and stable. Spiritually: Having a soul is a good thing. Sexually. A slow pulse, bored after 20 minutes, and enjoys being the target of noteworthy tactile expression. Socially. Inept. Clumsy. Nerdy. Never smokes. Drinks little. Drugs are for when you have the flu. And he is confused at the difference between trance and dance. (Is this a dare, or what?? How can anyone be so ________, you're thinking? Yesnomaybe, you're right.)
Peace. Quiet. Home. Coffee bars. Fitness. Sports, especially American football. Gardening. Architecture. Photography. Left-leaning politics. Books. Kayaking. Winter sports. Biking. (I think that's a notch down from cycling where one wears cycling drag.) Developing meaningful relationships; whereby airports are not involved. I prefer art on canvas, not on epidermis. Thanks for reading this rubbish and saying hello.