Love doing creative things, I'm constantly trying out a new hobby or digging up old ones. Mostly an indoor kind of guy, but that's mostly for medical reasons. I love to cook for friends and entertain: barbeques, cocktail parties, formal dinners and everything in between. I do best when I'm taking care of others -- usually when on my own, I'm pretty low-energy and keep things in my life minimal. Mostly this is just because I tend to enjoy solitary activities and don't feel the need to force more activity in my day in an effort to 'fill my time.' I read frequently, though usually fictitious works in the fantasy and horror genres, though I can occasionally be found with psychology or philosophy books as well. I love movies, especially supernatural horror and sci-fi. I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor that borders on profane, but I still know when to reel myself in and show some consideration of my surroundings. I'm not an easy lay...I don't believe in giving it up to randoms. I get that some guys are just in it for sex, and that's great, but I'm not the guy for that. Sorry, not sorry. Not a judgment, and bitchy IMs that tell me to 'try match.com' are only going to get you blocked, so save both of our time and just don't. I'm too young to be 'old', but I'm too old to be 'young.' I respect others and give the benefit of the doubt...but if that benefit is abused, it will not be extended again. I don't do 'chances.' I don't repeat mistakes. Honesty goes a long way with me. I'm a hopeless romantic trapped in the body of a cynic - I may say things that sound a bit jaded, but my actions tell a different story. I do 'nice' things for people for selfish reasons: I love the feeling of joy it gives me. I don't expect anything in return. I have a hard time asking for help, offering apologies or conveying thanks simply because I feel like words don't do justice to the feelings behind them. I would rather be thought of as an honest asshole than an insincere fake. I will tell the truth, but I will try to soften the blow by choosing my words carefully. I'm hopelessly addicted to netflix and coffee.
Ask me about:
You should have a pretty good idea from the 'about me' section to know what to talk about. Just say hi, introduce yourself, strike up some small talk. Let's see where it goes.
Kinds of guys I'm looking for:
I tend to like guys who can be themselves and not need to change depending on who else is in the room.
I'm more attracted to a man's facial features than his body. A square jaw and strong cheekbones will win me over every time. I don't want to waste my time chasing after someone that spends more time in the gym than he does with me. I'll be honest, I'm mostly attracted to taller, slimmer guys, but that is by no means a requirement or deal breaker. Age is also not a deal breaker, it mostly depends on if there is mutual attraction. (not into 'dad bods.' Sorry...)
A note on sex: It takes me a while to warm up to someone sexually...but once I do, I won't be able to keep my mitts off of you. I'm not really into anal, but trust me, you'll never complain or go unsatisfied.