So a few basics: I am a top (haven't been a bottom in about 10 years) and I tend to be a bit rough and dominant in bed. I am NOT one of those "dominant" guys that just mimic the fake stuff in porn. I don't beat anyone around, and I don't want to be called "sir". A good submissive bottom for me is a strong man that follows my lead out of respect, NOT fear. I'm a simple guy that can't be easily judged by my appearance (ie: my favorite song is "Edge of Seventeen" by Stevie Nicks, I'm not a party goer but would rather be out camping, fishing, hiking, things like that...).
So what you really need to know about me: I volunteer my time at local animal shelters working with at risk and violent dogs. To this day, I have never met a "bad" dog that couldn't be retrained with a gentle touch, some patience, and a lot of love. I have scars on my arms and a small one over my eye (look closely in the pictures) from this and will likely have more as time goes on. If you're looking for the smooth, perfect skinned twink that has never worked a day in his life and still calls every older man "daddy", I'm not your guy.
In real life, I'm a jail guard. Do NOT ask to be my inmate, and don't ask me to imitate what porn portrays jailhouse rape to be like. I have my reasons, and feel free to ask why, but respect that. No, I wasn't raped, but my attacker ended up being killed during the incident. Just ask...
I like working. I am not rich and never will be, but I love volunteering and I am excited to see what the future brings.
I don't smoke or do any drugs or anything. Oh, I have lost about 150 lbs over the last few years and am still going.
So that's me. I'm not a twink, not a "boy" that has no clue what life and living is. I love training dogs, the good and the "bad". Website development is a hobby, and in real life, this young dom top is a jailer. If you can handle that, say hi!
Kinds of guys I'm looking for:
I have a weakness for older men and the kind of shy guys that are generally too scared to say hi, unfortunately. Quiet, geeky, nerdy guys seem to have some kind of cute way of making me melt. I love natural curves on a man, and prefer men that just trims but doesn't shave anything bald. I don't care if you're naturally small figured or a bit thick... I just find the naturally curved body of a sweet older man so damn attractive. Oddly enough, I'm just not attracted to bulky muscular men, and I don't care if you're masc or fem just as long as I NEVER have to see you in women's clothing. If I can find many of those things in a total sub bottom, I'm happy.
Also: while sex is a very active and fun thing for me in a relationship, I have never been sucked off to completion. I've never been with anyone that has made me enjoy it enough. I'm not looking for a guy that prefers oral over anal, but if you are the type that likes oral a lot and can please, that's a big plus to me. If I ever meet a good match that can also suck me off to completion, I'll probably marry him right then and there. Just saying.
***I'm NOT vers at all, so no vers guys and no tops. I love chatting, but I will never initiate a conversation unless your profile specifically says that race isn't an issue or that you like black guys.***