To start things off ask me about my day, and then actually care, not just because this says to. Once we've talked and things move along ask about the dumb stupid things. Favorite animal, color, food, song, all the stuff most people don't care to know. That shows me you have a genuine interest and want to get to know me, even the little things. The more attention you pay to these things, and the more I can tell that you remember the things I say, the better chance you have of winning me over.
Kinds of guys I'm looking for:
Guys who don't let their sexuality define them, but have their own personal identity and are simply attracted to men. Also clean of drugs, little to no smoking, and a plan or goals for their life.
Reading, cooking, art(poetry, paintings, sculptures, music... etc), zoology, and being outside.