Just ask if'n ya wanna know. It's chat, fer crying' out loud. Yeah, my pics are there so I expect yours to be as well. Messages without face pics aren't likely to generate much interest (I want to see who I'm chatting with just as much as you).
Ask me about:
“Conversation should be like juggling; up go the balls and plates, up and over, in and out, good solid objects that glitter in the footlights and fall with a bang if you miss them.” Please try that, rather than say "hello" and then expect me to entertain you. I don't have that many jokes and they're old anyway.