There is more than one person out there for each of us. Monogamy is overrated and in most cases unattainable. 50% of marriages fail and the ones that stay together, 40% cheat on each other. Long term relationships are great but I put no pressure on making them last a lifetime. I do believe that you can enjoy them as long as they last and as long as they are healthy but when the tide shifts if partners don't shift with it then it's time to help each other find a new stream.
Kinds of guys I'm looking for:
I expect my sexual partners to be submissive and bottoms who enjoy the firm hand of a man and share the passion I have for life to be enjoyed in every aspect. I like women and guys usually younger than me.