I am a gregarious intellectual, passionate, outgoing, charming and open minded. I lead a well balanced life. My alternative lifestyle is as much a part of my world as the world is part of my alternative lifestyle. A simple trip to the ice cream parlor, movie theater or the beach can be as thrilling as scuba diving, as romantic as a candle light dinner or as kinky as an evening in the dungeon if you do it right. I do not have a vanilla alter ego, perspective or lifestyle. I am who I am, all the time… even in grocery stores and gas stations.