I'm a seriously older man, long divorced and the proud father of two grown children. I'd like to find a guy who's motivated, intelligent, masculine, honest, and fit. One who's strong and independent in the world but wants attention and direction (or more, if you're drawn to the Dom/sub dynamic) from an older man in a relationship based – as all good relationships should be – on affection and mutual respect.
I'm looking for a lot more than just sex, but when it comes to sex, I'm uncut and an oral Top. In case you didn't pick it up from my member name, I'm HIV+. Have been for a long time, with no health effects, an undetectable viral load, and a commitment to safe sex.
My carer before retiring was in higher ed. I've lived in Asia, Europe, and the Middle East and enjoy travel, languages, culture, diversity, learning new things and meeting new people.