Broke up in June withy my boyfriend of 4 years. Still have a way further to go in the way of "getting over" him.
I like guys with muscle. Brains and heart are important too.
I have a kinky side, and generally favor being dom. There are a few exceptions (With my last boyfriend, the relationship was more equal, which worked for us, while we were together.)
Most of my kink revolves around muscle, control, and hypnosis. If you like a guy who will take charge and expect you to develop and respect your body, you'll like me.
I also have an abiding interest in math, science fiction, and public policy. I have deep nerd roots. I've also done the AIDS ride six times. I do massage. I've been an EMT and an engineer. And like most people, I do have some baggage, but I try not to let it intrude.