I am a regular country kinda guy. I love the outdoors, spending time with friends, or a quiet night in. I am bi, but my sexuality doesn't define me or change the way I act. It is no one's business unless I choose to share it, and I don't feel the need to broadcast it. I stay discreet due to work. However, in a long term relationship I would be more open about it, but until that time I will remain mostly on the DL for several reasons. I am looking for another masculine guy that is in a similar situation for friendship, and to see where that friendship takes us. I am not looking for a hookup, a quick fling, or anything like that. If that's what you're looking for, you can go ahead and move on to another ad. I want something real, whether its just a friendship or something more. A lot of you may be wondering about me being bisexual. I think women are beautiful and enjoy relationships with them, and I also hope to have a family someday, whether it be adoption or whatever. I have met women that I could see myself spending my life with,and have also met guys I could see myself spending my life with. I find most relationships with women that I have had lacking in some way. Unfortunately it seems like relationships between guys are even more lacking in fidelity, intimacy, and trust, and I'm hoping there is someone out there that feels the same way.
I am 100% straight acting and masculine, and I'm seeking the same. I don't understand why so many gay men act like women, that would seem to defeat the purpose of being attracted to guys. No offense to anyone, to each his own, and we all have to be who we are, but I don't really understand where that comes from. I'm not usually attracted to anyone who I can tell is gay within the first few minutes of meeting them, or who cannot define who they are without referring to their sexual orientation . I am not into the gay scene, or "gay pride", or LGBT anything. Those are just labels to divide people. I support the idea of marriage as a religious institution and/or a personal commitment between consenting adults. The government should have nothing to do with marriage in any way.
If you've made it this far and are still reading, I am impressed. Here's a little more about me: I enjoy pretty much anything with the right person or group. I love the outdoors, so I enjoy sports, hiking, camping, fishing, shooting, offroading, skydiving, skiing, swimming, bbqing, or anything adventurous. I also love spending time inside, whether it be watching movies, listening to music (country and rock are my favorites), reading, or just hanging out. Some would call me a redneck or country boy, but that's fine by me, though I don't think that completely defines who I am. I currently work full time but I'm a person who tries to find balance in all things. Work hard play hard. While I'm ambitious and have goals in life, I also know that you have to enjoy life and not be afraid to live for today, not for the future. I am not a physical specimen, but I am working hard to be fit and healthy and feel that is an important part of taking care of yourself, and contributes to your ability to enjoy what life has to offer. While physical attractiveness definitely doesn't hurt, I am much more attracted to the right personality, attitude, sense of humor, and love of life. I am a Christian (non-denominational) and do attend church regularly. Politically I'm a conservative libertarian, so if that somehow makes us incompatible then feel free to hit the back button. I am not arrogant or conceited, but I am self-confident, and I feel that you cannot be in a meaningful relationship without first having confidence in yourself.
If you're still here and want to know more about me, or if anything I said resonates with how you feel, by all means email me. I look forward to hearing from you. If you want to criticize what I have written or who I am, feel free, but it's not going to change me or my beliefs. I am not judging or degrading anyone, I am just trying to show how I feel and who I am as a person as best I can in a small amount of space.