I'm an INTJ, for those of you who understand this.
I'm a graduate student working toward my degree in Communication Studies. It is a Masters of Fine Arts though, so if you are curious, feel free to ask me. My emphasis areas in communication research is in rhetoric, performance studies, and sexualities. I'm particularly interested in the performance of coming out stories.
My ideal date is dinner at home, followed by a movie, followed by cuddles in bed. Yes, I'm a first date cuddles guy.
I enjoy long walks on the beach, fruity drinks, and heavy beats, but I can't dance. I also enjoy talking with people who just generally want to chat. I consider myself a decent conversationalist.
I am currently trying to move from a meat eater into vegetarian, then vegan.
Ask me about:
Ask me about my version of Forensics. It's not what you'd think it is :) ,
Ask me about my sexuality and sexual preferences. I'm gay, I enjoy sex, and I love engaging in conversation about it. It's part of my research interests. ,
Ask me about my weight loss journey. It's been up and down for years and I am still trying to lose weight and tone up. Expect me to ask you what your secret is ;) ,
Ask me about my favorite books, music, movies, etc.
Kinds of guys I'm looking for:
I usually like guys that are around my age. I'm into guys around my size or taller and thinner. Nothing against heavier guys, just not my preference. I'm not opposed to those of you who do not meet this criteria. But you have to talk to me first and see. It's all about my mental, physical, and emotional connection.
Just don't be a jerk. Don't insult me. Don't challenge me in a way that is an attack. I can handle discussion and debate, but do not mock me. Maintain my faith in humanity and we'll go from there.
I enjoy reading a lot. I am particularly prone to reading humor and academic books, especially narrative autoethnography.,
I do like writing as well. I used to write a lot of poetry. I still write some, but I really love humor and comedy so I have been trying to write some standup lately. ,
I'm a huge fan of movies. I'm always down for a good comedy. I like drama as well, but I need a push to watch it just because I'm not always in the mood to ball my eyes out. I love Tim Burton, Johnny Depp, Helena Bonham Carter, and my movie goddess, Meryl Streep. I don't care for horror, but if you let me cuddle you and bury my head in your chest, I would survive. :) ,
I love music. Listening I like all kinds of genres. Mostly into pop lately but I do still love some good symphonic metal. I sing some. My idol is Josh Groban so if you ever hear me sing, I tend to sound a bit more classical, baritone bass range. I'm no Josh Groban, but I can generally hold my own. I was originally trained to sing in church and musical theatre. ,
I am re-learning how to exercise. Running and walking are my primary exercise, but I love swimming and tennis when I have time.