I do not think of myself as fitting in the average gay man mold. I am true to my up bringing and believe that good friends are hard to find, but when you find them they are around forever. I have had my party days years ago and find now that I am more a person who enjoys other venues and think it would be great to find someone who shares similiar interests to myself. I am not into the one night stands and never have been. I will leave you wtih all of the above and let you be the judge.