Enjoy others who have more going for them then just being gay and the gay scene. "To be rather than to seem" ..... in other words..... substance over style.
Kinds of guys I'm looking for:
Down to earth guys who have something more going for them then just being gay. Someone that has aspirations yet is grounded in the present. Someone that understands and appreciates the simple things in life mean the most. Someone who understands what commitment means, who has integrity and applies it in their life.