I was born in Harbor City, California on December 31, 1970 and lived in the Torrance/Redondo Beach area until I was 18 years of age. I attended college in Denver, CO and earned a BS degree and MS degree in Health Services Administration. I am a healthcare management executive and university professor and enjoy my career and all it has to offer in terms of the life-long learning and a journey to self-discovery. My greatest passion is teaching at the undergraduate level in health services, leadership, public health and health information management. Personally, I enjoy movies; long talks with good, honest and sincere friends; alone time to self reflect; cooking; reading; and, most of all, building relationships that contribute to the value of my life and those that surround it. The perfect match for me (though this has changed over the years) would be a mature man not into the games typically played in the gay scene. I am not well connected to the gay community in any significant way. In fact, I find it a bit excessive on many fronts. My date would have to be someone who is sincere, financially secure, honest, possesses the ability to engage in conversation and talk about the tough stuff, ready to date (and understand what that means), has the ability to listen and engage in constructive conversation (not just talk to hear himself talk or avoid eye contact), educated, respectful and, most of all, compassionate and self aware (understanding that intimacy comes in many forms before sex). I do not want to mislead my readers, so here it is....Yes, I find men are more attractive in their more mature state in life, and I am attracted (at the outset) to men that take care of themselves (physically, emotionally and mentally). I believe life is a journey and is all about self-discovery and self-awareness, so please possess authentic characteristics of self-reflective insight and introspectiveness. To be perfectly frank, I am not interested in dating anyone with an alcohol problem or men in the closet (whether 5% or 50% closeted). I believe in living an authentic life (being content with who we are and what we are) free of chemical dependence and/or abuse; my date should share the same values. If you have read through my profile thus far and enjoy what I have written, please send me an email and tell me about yourself.
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