Let me emphasize: (1) no facial picture = no chat - have one in your profile or available to send - genitalia doesn't interest me. (2) I live in New Jersey - men in the tri-state area are encouraged. Those away from that area or in other countries, be aware that long-distant relationships rarely work, but we can chat. (3) I will not accept a friend request until I have chatted with you. MY FAQ: WHO AM I? Intelligent, artistic, articulate, respectful, responsible man around my age or younger who can be a devoted friend (with/without benefits) and/or partner . WHAT IS MY TYPE? I don't have a specific type since every man is different. I just talk with each person as they are and know what I like when I encounter it. WHAT TURNS ME ON (PERSONALITY-WISE)? Good conversation, good sense of humor, earthiness, giving, open-mindedness, independence, and unashamedly unique. WHAT TURNS ME ON (PHYSICALLY)? I am more impressed with a man's face, mind, hands and feet than the dimensions of what is between his legs. WHAT TURNS ME OFF? Mindgames, dishonesty, arrogance, attitudes, superiority complexes.